How To Pick Up Women
by Joseph Matthews
Feeling clueless when it comes to picking up women? These handy tips will help get you started on the path of success to getting the women of your dreams!
Want to start picking up women, but have no idea how to do so?
Many guys get lots of bad advice about picking up women from their friends and family who know even LESS about how to get a girl than they do. Even so-called "Dating experts" that you see on TV usually don't know what they're talking about because they have to cater to the feminist media! (And truth be told, the mainstream media looks down on any tactic that could help guys get laid!)
The fact is: Teaching guys how to pick up women is a touchy subject!
If you want to get started right away, you're going to need some practical advice that really works! Luckily, you've found this article! So let's get to it...
First off - here's what you DON'T need to pick up women.
You DON'T need to look like a "male model."
This is the biggest mistake men make. You have to realize that close to 85% of women care more about how a man makes them FEEL, rather than how he actually LOOKS.
So if you're insecure about your looks, don't sweat it! There's still hope.
Next, you DON'T have to drive a fancy car, or spend a lot of money!
Some of the best pick up artists I've ever met never spend more than $30 when on a date, and many of them didn't even own a car! (And if they did, it wasn't a very nice one!)
You'll find that women can be very forgiving when it comes to how much money you make or spend on them, if they LIKE you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?
Finally, you DON'T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.
Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!
Interacting with women the right way is the only thing that matters.
Unless you're already on the verge of becoming a master pick up artist, you're probably not going to have phenomenal success right away using these tips and tactics. But if you apply these and other tactics over a period of time and learn from your experiences, you'll find your success with women will skyrocket!
Go out as often as you're able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you're starting out. You don't have to go to high-pressure environments like nightclubs where it's difficult to pick up women, but there is no better "practice ground" in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.
Despite where you choose to go, you need to set aside some time every day to go out and pick up women - you'll get better the more times you do it!
When you're first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.
And the more experience you have, the more likely it is you'll be able to MASTER the art of picking up women!
The most important thing to remember about going out to pick up women is to gain experience!
When you do go out to gain this valuable experience with the ladies, try and look as good as you possibly can!
(Notice here that I'm not saying you have to be "good looking." I'm saying you need to "look good." There is a big difference between the two. You don't have any say about what you look like, but you DO have a say in your appearance - your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, what cologne you put on, etc.)
Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you're not into fashion and don't know where to start, ask a female friend who's very fashion conscious to help you find the right types of clothes.
It's true that you don't need fancy threads to meet girls, but why not make it easier by wearing nice clothes, why wouldn't you do it? Besides, looking good will also make you feel more confident!
Keep an out out for every opportunity to pick up women that comes your way. Attractive women are just about everywhere, and if you notice an opportunity to talk to one, don't let it pass you by!
Finally, its important to remember that a good pick up follows an easy-to-use structure. This means there's steps you can follow to get a specific result EVERY TIME you go out to meet women.
This structure is as follows:
Find the girl.
Walk up and meet her.
Gain Rapport.
Build Attraction.
That's it! Four simple steps. You'll find that if you're able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily.
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